Is There Anybody Out There?
Hi, everyone.
Today in episode 16, we’ll be looking at “Is There Anybody Out There?”.
Do you ever feel like you’re shouting into the void with your online marketing efforts?
Like you’re spinning your wheels, trying to make sense of the vast landscape of affiliate marketing, but finding yourself lost in a sea of confusion and overwhelm?
If so, you’re not alone.
I find myself in this situation time and time again. Each time I take the next step in the adventure those feelings of venturing into the void start to well up inside. I then start to feel overwhelmed and frustrated.
You know what I’m talking about, right?
The questions I find myself asking are: How do I manage these feelings? Will they ever go away?
Before we get into the 6 ways to minimize the frustration and overwhelming feelings let’s look at some other aspects that compound this issue.
In today’s digital marketing age, the world of online/affiliate marketing can seem like a daunting and isolating place. With countless strategies, platforms, and tools available, it’s easy to feel like you’re operating in a vacuum, disconnected from the guidance and support you need to succeed. In fact, all the technology that goes into setting up and running an online/affiliate marketing business is mind boggling.
There’s learning how to blog, create funnels, post on social media, drive traffic, create email lists, and how to monetize your business. That doesn’t include all the back-office things that need to be done to run a company.
Because of this, the feeling of isolation and confusion is a common experience shared by many, both beginners and seasoned marketers alike, in the industry.
Now one of the questions we asked earlier is will these feelings of being overwhelmed go away?
The short answer to this is no.
Unfortunately, starting and running an online business requires one to constantly be working outside one’s comfort zone.
DON’T LET THIS SCARE YOU!!
The good news is that there are ways to manage the sense of overwhelm and find your place in the fast-paced world of online marketing.
So, what are the 6 ways to minimize frustration and the feeling of being in a void?
First and foremost, it’s important to remember that you are not alone in facing these challenges.
Tap Into experts: There is a vast community of marketers, entrepreneurs, and experts who have been where you are and are eager to offer their support and guidance. Find one or two with whom you resonate and learn from them. Whether through online forums, social media groups, or networking events, reaching out and connecting with others in the industry can provide invaluable insights and camaraderie.
Seek Additional Resources: Don’t be afraid to seek out resources and education to help you navigate the complexities of online marketing. From online courses and tutorials to podcasts and blogs, there is a wealth of information available to help you sharpen your skills and stay ahead of the curve. Again, pick out a couple that will help for where you are at the time. Investing in your own learning and development is key to building confidence and competence in the ever-evolving world of digital marketing.
Stay Focused: Remember to focus on what truly matters – providing value to your audience. With so much noise and competition in the online space, it can be easy to get caught up in chasing likes, clicks, and conversions. But at the end of the day, success in online marketing is ultimately about building genuine connections with your audience and delivering content that resonates with them on a meaningful level.
You’re Not Alone: If you ever find yourself feeling lost and overwhelmed in the vast expanse of online marketing, just remember – you’re not alone. By reaching out, seeking support, and staying focused on your audience, you can navigate the maze of online marketing with confidence and clarity. After all, in a world as connected as ours, there’s always somebody out there ready to lend a helping hand.
One Step at A Time: Breaking down your goals and tasks into small manageable steps and only focusing on what needs to be done is a powerful way to minimize the feeling of staring into the void and being overwhelmed. The old saying is, “It’s easier to eat an elephant one bite at a time than trying to swallow it all at once”.
Adjust Your Thinking: Make sure that you are feeding your mind positive things every day. For a positive mind cannot house negative thoughts.
Zig Ziglar said it this way, “It’s your attitude, not your aptitude that will determine your altitude.”
Applying these six principles in your life will greatly reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed, frustrated, and in a vacuum.
As I stated above, no one is immune to these feelings. It is how one chooses to manage them that will determine the level which you rise to in your online/affiliate business.
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Till next time my friend,
This is CJ signing off.
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You hit the nail on the head! Absolutely no one can avoid the feelings that come along with building an online business, it’s how we choose to handle them when they come along that makes the difference. Excellent advise on the 6 ways to minimize those feelings as well. I am always amazed at how many in this community are willing to help in getting you through the tough times. Thank you for always being one of those!
CJ, I feel like you’re speaking RIGHT TO ME here! I’m in a place right now where I’m experimenting with different ideas for my social media videos… seeing what works and what doesn’t. Sometimes it feels like I’m talking into the abyss, and that only tends to breed discouragement. I appreciated reading this today, as it was a big help to keep me on track and focused. Thank you for helping me continue to move forward in my online journey!
Hi CJ & SJ,
The online biz world can definitely be hard to manage and challenging. I appreciate your guide 6 ways to minimize that frustration and overwhelm. I will come in handy as a go to list for when these feelings arise. Thanks for sharing 🙂
Denny
Hi CJ and SJ!
This a wonderful reminder that although we may be alone at the computer trying to continue our content creation and grow our business, we are NOT alone. There are so many resources, communities, etc., as you mentioned, that are ready and willing to be supportive! This is important to remember, especially if you don’t have the physical support around you to encourage you to keep going!
Thank you for this inspiration today!
All the best!
Milissa Neirotti
CJ, Your post really hit close to home for me. I know exactly what it feels like to be lost in the vastness of online marketing, every step forward feeling like a leap into uncertainty. Your insights about the overwhelming nature of the digital world and the endless tasks involved really resonated with me. I’ve often wondered if these feelings of overwhelm will ever ease up, so your reassurance was a relief. Your tips on minimising frustration and finding clarity were spot-on, especially about tapping into experts and staying focused on providing value to our audience.
I’m definitely taking your advice to heart, breaking down my goals into manageable steps and keeping a positive mindset. Your reminder that we’re not alone in this journey and that there’s support out there was truly uplifting. You have given me so much support for which I thank you. Thanks, Atif
CJ,
Yes we must embrace the fact that we will be uncomfortable and get used to it. I believe this feeling will keep us seeking more. More learning, more advice, more success from our business. This feeling of “Is anyone out there” is spot on. It can feel like we are lost and not making progress, but our progress is made every day we show up and work on our business. Thank you for the tips on the 6 ways to minimize frustration often as I feel frustrated often.
Sherri
Thank you VJ and SJ! It is always comforting knowing we are not alone with these feelings of being overwhelmed. Stay focus is what I try to do. I’m on TikTok actually where it could be tempting to boost your number of followers “artificially” but at the end, these are just empty followers that are no longer interested by you and what you do. For my business I seek interested followers as far as possible. It takes more time to grow your audience but creating relationships actually takes time.
Martin
One step at a time is a good one – I break the tasks down into to-do lists, organizing what needs to be done now, and then what needs to come next definitely helps me deal with stress
Oh my, this is spot on, guys. You hit the nail on the head. It’s not just thinking that it will get easier…it’s how you decide whether it gets more accessible, and you can only move forward regardless of the stress and frustration. So many people get into this rut of not seeing results for their efforts and decide to quit or move on to something else promising to be shinier and more profitable. It doesn’t exist. Nothing will ever work as long as you cannot stay consistent with anything. It has taken me years to figure this out. I wish I did 10 years ago but better late than never. I always enjoy reading your blog and following along on your journey. Thank you for another great post.
Hi CJ,
Stepping out of your comfort zone is always hard for people to do. I struggle with it myself. It is very necessary to do so in business. I’m trying to get better with that. Mindset is everything… This will be one post I will have to come back to. Thank you for your post. Take care.
Meredith
Thank you for sharing your insights! Navigating the world of online marketing can indeed feel overwhelming at times, but your tips offer a clear roadmap for staying focused and overcoming those challenges. I especially resonate with the idea of seeking support from experts and breaking tasks into manageable steps. Looking forward to applying these strategies in my own journey!
Working outside your comfort zone is uncomfortable but keeping in mind your 6 points are good reminders to reach out for help (that I am not the best at) but have been slowly adjusting to it as talking to others reduces the challenges I am facing. Thanks for this checklist.
I resonated with your blog post! This is me! The 6 ways have been noted and the post will be bookmarked to calm me down the next time I feel the frustration rising.
I did start your 30 day challenge, and it massively helped me. I have found myself calmer and talking challenges head on but sometimes negative people around me has affected me. It’s hard to be positive when surrounded by negative Nellie’s.
This will work, I’m not giving up and I’m looking to see what I’ve achieved at the end. I look forward to reading your posts and following your journey. Thank you for sharing it.
Hey CJ and SJ! This is me…you just described me. The six ways to minimize the frustration of the void are essential to follow. Thank you for listing them. These are so good it is tempting to hit print (in this paperless world) and post them to be reminded there is a way to get out of the feelings you described. While I feel all the things you mentioned, I can add I also add “Have Hope and Keep Faith” to the six ways to minimize the frustration of the void. I try to feel hopeful and optimistic (most of the time anyway 🙂 ) in the midst of my anxiety. Take care and have a great week!